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I specialize in healing from Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) and burnout using the NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM).

C-PTSD is a result of prolonged, repeated interpersonal and environmental failures. It is also known as complex, developmental, relational, attachment, and generational trauma. The patterns we developed in order to survive this trauma are also what can cause us to burn ourselves out. As an example, a common pattern is not listening to our bodies and emotions; instead, we may override them by placing unrealistic pressure and demands on ourselves.

Burnout is a process that can occur when we have repeated and prolonged high demands that exceed our available resources. Oftentimes, burnout is considered in a workplace setting, but burnout can be experienced alongside other life pressures and excessive demands such as responsibilities as a caregiver/parent, relational stress, or living with a chronic illness or condition.

In our work together, we will use the NARM framework to explore your survival patterns and how they are getting in the way of what you want most. We will meet them with presence, curiosity, and compassion so that you can become an expert on your inner world. When you are able to see and feel what’s happening inside more clearly, you can also rebuild your capacity for connection to yourself and to others.

Sessions are 90 minutes long, allowing us space to explore more deeply without the added pressure of time.

Testimonials

  • Helen has a true gift for holding space for your experience. Her presence is generous, gentle, and kind—exactly the kind of supportive energy you need when you're navigating burnout or deep emotional wounding. But don't mistake her warmth for passivity: she's incredibly courageous and astute, with a gentle candor that pushes you to meet your challenges with a steady hand. I'm thrilled to recommend her to anyone who's ready to take the next step on the healing journey with the help of a compassionate guide.

    -Mejin, Los Angeles

  • I bet my nine lives on you-oooo-ooo-hooo. Furball roll roll roll warm up laptop with butt lick butt fart rainbows until owner yells pee in litter box hiss at cats mrow. Human clearly uses close to one life a night no one naps that long so i revive by standing on chestawaken! lie in the sink all day. Flee in terror at cucumber discovered on floor what the heck just happened, something feels fishy but x.

    -Kitty, Space

  • Spend all night ensuring people don't sleep sleep all day morning beauty routine of licking self i cry and cry and cry unless you pet me, and then maybe i cry just for fun lasers are tiny mice but kitty pounce, trip, faceplant you didn't see that no you didn't definitely didn't lick, lick, lick, and preen away the embarrassment for toilet paper attack claws fluff everywhere meow miao french ciao litterbox mess up all the toilet paper.

    -Another Kitty, Ocean